Since
You Went Away
a
film by John Cromwell released through United Artists in 1944

Melodrama gets a bad rap.
But why?
The word ‘melodrama’
pertains to expressions that are “overly” sentimental. Melodrama is overly sentimental only for
those who don’t care for sentiment at all, or like it in bite-sized portions.
Looking at things
from the critic’s perspective, is a melodrama an example of too much of a good
thing? Maybe, but have you ever heard
someone say that a comedy was too funny or a thriller too suspenseful? No.
And so a melodrama can only go too far when the piling on of wrenching
emotion interferes with suspension of disbelief. It’s not a problem of genre, but
believability.
The inimical word
‘sentiment’ is pulled between disparate meanings—one is exaggerated, mawkish emotion, and the other feelings of tenderness. For
some cynics even the latter is objectionable.
Why? What’s the objection to sentimental dramas?
Is it a jaundiced
view of human nature, a preference for realism and grittiness, an aversion to
the popular? (They would say
‘plebian.’) Is it embarrassment? Or is it a negative view of one’s self
(either acquired or inflicted), projected onto the whole world in order to drag
it down, too?
Since You Went Away is sentimental and, for our purposes, melodramatic. But many Americans enduring World War II at home were feeling the same things. They, too rode the roller coaster of juxtaposed tragedy and triumph. Therefore this film is real and gritty. But you’d never hear them say that...unless they lived through it, too.
All the
touchstones are hit—driving restrictions, victory gardens, hording/rationing/the black market, war bonds, housing shortages, overburdened trains,
salvage drives, Red Cross volunteering, defense plant work, and nylon shortages
and egg shortages and shortages of every other kind—except for caring.
The movie is a
time capsule of its era and it feels like a foreign country, this America with
spunky black maids, telegrams, girls in dresses, news delivered by movie
screen, double beds for married folk, gin rummy, booze on the sideboard, asking
permission to smoke as evidence of effeminate solicitousness, furious letter
writing, WACS, and WAVES.
Of course, some
things don’t change. Consider the dance,
where the girls are ogled by greedy-eyed men hollering approval. It’s a more restrained version of today’s wet
t-shirt contests.
Less
disconcerting, extended families still play games at Christmas gatherings,
America remains a shining light to the broken denizens of a world trapped in
shadow, men see war, still, as a call to glory and/or sacrifice, and girls,
dreaming of husbands unknown, still obsess over, and find self-worth in, their
looks.
Heralding the
story’s aspirations for dark verisimilitude, the photography is characterized
by high contrast lighting and deep shadows.
The screenplay makes some subversive suggestions. Tony is the best character and the film is
strongest when he’s around to provide an injection of masculinity and to serve,
unnervingly, as a husband substitute.
Especially with Tim missing in action it seems Tony can prevail on Anne
for some intimate attention. After all,
M.I.A. usually translates to D.O.A.
Their sexual tension is bold and refreshing for a movie that starts off
looking to be nothing more than high-gloss propaganda. What we have here is family drama film
noir.
The Colonel Smollett character is another
welcome surprise. At first it seems his
stuck-up boorishness will get him thrown out of the house. Then, with moving the fish tank, undergarments
on the showed rod, and the plant in the sink, it seems like Shirley Temple’s
Brig wants to make life for the colonel intolerable like the twins did to Vicky
in The Parent Trap.
But no—not only
does he stay, he becomes a surrogate father and valued confidant. It’s touching to see how the three girls’
love for him breaks down his icy resolve and forces him to reconsider his
philosophy of life, particularly as it pertains to his grandson, Bill.
The screenplay, in
addition to the rich characterizations of Tony and Colonel Smollett, takes more
unexpected turns. The double entendre of
Tony’s recruiting poster (“Come on In”) seems quite risqué for 1944, and it’s a
subtle nod to Claudette Colbert’s sexpot days as a DeMille star and her famous
hitchhiking stratagem in It Happened One
Night.
Before Bill leaves
we’re treated to a vignette giving us a snapshot of wartime America outside the
Hilton home. (It’s a recurring device
through the film.) Here we see a soldier
stolidly bid goodbye to his love, discouraging her from looking back as she
walks away. The joke is, a minute later
he performs the same gesture of self-sacrifice with another girl! This moment is important for its leavening
humor and because it best encapsulates the film’s refusal to make angels out of
all Americans; like the food-hording, high-living widower played deftly by
Agnes Moorehead, it wasn’t every citizen putting the community’s needs
first.
In a third
surprise, after Bill is gone, it seems that Jane’s loss will be remedied in the
person of battle-scarred Danny. Lest
Jane’s grief seem inconsequential and Bill’s impact forgotten, they,
appropriately, just remain friends.
As realized by the
highly-regarded Robert Walker, Bill is a little weak, but harbors great anger
and resolve. His joy at winning a beauty
like Jennifer Jones is compelling.
And his departure
is the best scene of the movie. It’s the
iconic rendition of an iconic moment—a girl chasing a departing train with
tears in her eyes as she bids her lover farewell. The scene greatly benefits by Max Steiner’s
Oscar-winning score.
As the lovebirds
approach the tracks and kiss for the last time, the score is all yearning and
high strings. As the train begins to
chug away Steiner switches to minor and sets up a bass ostinato that, as it
jumps to a higher register, mimics the increasing speed of the train, while the
high strings, representing Jane, remain plaintive and unyielding. As the train conveys Bill out of shouting
distance, the trombones, aping the train whistle, mock Jane with pitiless scorn.
Then we get to the
real chiller—she looks at the watch that Bill has just handed her for
safe-keeping. It’s the watch his
grandfather inscribed, and she reads, “To William G. Smollett, 2nd/Who will
lead Men to Glory on the Battlefield.”
Since Bill has already predicted his death (in the short neighborhood
walk with Jane) it’s likely he’s done for.
(But we never find
out what happened to old Bill. It could
be that he did summon his courage and exercise leadership and brave enemy fire
to claim an important objective or save a fallen comrade. We don’t know, and the ambiguity is welcome.)
The melody for
“I’ll Be Home For Christmas” emerges, representing the hope that Jane feels,
and the ironic truth that, as foretold by her isolation on the darkened
platform, she’ll never see Bill again.
And the song, itself, is infused with irony because the last line of the
lyrics is, “I’ll be home for Christmas if
only in my dreams.”
When Christmas
does come at the film’s heart-rending finish, Anne opens the present from her
husband, whom she hopes against hope is still alive. She seems at wits end. At long last, she gets the call that Tim is
o.k. and is coming home. The film then
concludes with Psalm 31:24—“Be of good courage, and he shall strengthen your
heart, all ye that hope in the Lord.”
The audience is thus extolled that love of family should motivate us to
fight and faith in God provides courage sufficient to endure.
This exhortation
was set up by the minister’s recitation of “The Star-Spangled Banner” from the
pulpit and Tim’s confession that, while he entered the fight for adventure, he
soon realized that what really mattered was ‘Home Sweet Home.’
Is family more
important than country? The film expects
that its audience thinks so (probably each ’44 theatergoer having some family to speak of). But by going to fight, and risking one’s
life, is not the country made top priority?
After all, couldn’t somebody else do the fighting? One less soldier probably won’t make a difference,
anyway.
Moreover, is the
threat (Japan/Germany) really so great that the family will be threatened in an
invasion or bombing raid? Perhaps they
won’t be bodily threatened, but, with defeat, the country’s prospects will dim,
and the opportunities of individual family members will be circumscribed as
well.
But sometimes
(look at Britain after WWI and WWII) winning the war makes things barely
tolerable. The real decision is whether
to fight or not. If a country can stay
out of a war, and let other nations exhaust themselves, the treasury will not
be depleted and the people may benefit by trade to the warring parties.
The rule seems to
be, don’t fight if you don’t have to, but if you do fight, fight to win. Since almost all Americans were behind the
decision to go to war, they were then eager to do their part to win it. That’s the formula for American victory.
So the film is
speaking to a people who were eager to fight, but whose spirits were
flagging. Seeing this movie when it first
came out would be like attending a group therapy session. Almost everybody could relate to the
characters and take solace that, no, they weren’t alone in their pain after
all.
For a modern
audience, what makes the film work is its representation of the family. The need for belonging is powerful, and in
our day of fractured homes, Since You
Went Away conveys an unintended but welcome message of hope well suited to
aspiration or nostalgia.